After enduring several comments on sports, cars, and food, you begin to think this is a lost cause. In the volley of verbal discussion you are quite surprised to find out that a lot of thought is put into this subject, considering the fact that it often seems that guys do not talk about relationships, let alone pursue them. In fact, if what these guys say is true, emotions are just not enough.
A guy may be interested in a girl and still do and say nothing. Because guys believe there are more factors to consider than feelings. One of the guys explains a time when he was bold enough to ask a girl out, but she said no.
His parents and many other relatives got married only to divorce in the end.
His own relationships always ended in pain, and he was much better at so many other areas of his life.
It’s no secret that the good old-fashioned guy-asks-girl dates have fallen out of grace in our current dating culture.
Actually meeting someone for dinner, or even just a drink, is a rare occurrence for most of us and a much bigger deal when it does happen.
Another guy speaks up and points out that his main reason for not being active in the dating scene was that he felt he needed to be financially set before he could seriously commit to a woman.
He continues to convey how he feels that no matter how hard a guy tries, it won’t be good enough in the end any how.“I blame it on the fairy tales and romantic comedies,” He says.“There’s knights in shining armor, the biggest engagement rings ever, and guys that always know what to say.” This strikes you a bit oddly.In addition to this, he opens up and reveals that he believes most women want this. ” This guy was very straightforward and honest about the fact that he would rather put time into things he knew he was good at.He expresses his insecurity that even though he has a decent job while still in grad school, that he still feels inept as a man because he could not support a woman even if he wanted to. He laid out a list of reasons why romance was simply not in his blood.They are guys -- flawed humans who just have not figured it out yet.