"I met my second wife on Ok Cupid and started texting back and forth nonstop for a few days. We literally talked for hours on our first date; it was like fireworks were going off.She was fine with [my divorce] at first, but I think after our third date, she spoke to one of her friends who said that because I was divorced, there must be something wrong with me. She was ready to break up with me on that fourth date, but I remember telling her something really personal about how I was there for my dad when my grandfather died and how I helped him through.That made her realize that what anyone else said didn't matter.Eight months later, I popped the question and the amount of joy, tears, and happiness that was flowing was amazing."“I was engaged by my senior year of college and had got married the September after we graduated. Even though she has decided to wait a few years until her daughter is grown to reenter the dating scene, she's confused about how to proceed."When Madaline is out of the house I want to date, but I don't know how." Samantha has been divorced for only a year, but would like to start dating again even though her two boys are still in elementary school.But I had been with my wife throughout most of college. And compared to dating as an adult, a lot of that doesn’t really count.
I feel like getting married and divorced so young completely changed my perspective on what I wanted out of a partner.
It's something people have to really take in and think about.
I've noticed, weirdly, that some of the more casual 'relationships' I've had are with people who are less OK with it. I'm seeing someone now but it's still new.” “I got divorced when I was 26, and it messed with me for sure. Everyone wants to find their soul mate and their dream job, and I felt like I had already accomplished half of what I needed to. We had all these plans and dreams, and we were going to spend our lives together.
I needed someone who would be there to help pick up the pieces when stuff went completely sideways.
It made me realize that I was allowed to be picky, but by the same token, that I should meet all sorts of different people to explore the world out there.